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Through watching them close up, and working with the countless other couples that we hear from every day, I’ve had to face the hard truth that sometimes the damage that has been done is too big or too heavy to move past… and it is time to let go.

They have to live in the present, and in front of them and their friends and family is a marriage that has crumbled.

It is now ‘too late’ for their marriage, and while getting to this place could have been prevented… they don’t get to live in the past or in the land of “if’s and only’s”. I’ve watched, very slowly, and over time, as their marriage has gone from full of hope to hopeless from we have some time to work this out, to it’s too late it’s over. I’ve watched them hurt each other and their family by waiting too long to get help for themselves and their marriage. I’ve watched them struggle to grasp and truly put into practice concepts like forgiveness, new/updated boundaries, and reconciliation.

For years I’ve watched our friends go through cycles of explosive ruptures & what they thought was real ‘repair’ & healing, but was actually just a band-aid over the real issues.

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